Golf Tips » September 2001: Playing with Juniors

This month’s tip request comes from Chuck Stone of Wilmington, NC who asks  "As a father, I would like some tips for playing with a junior. Do’s and don’ts would be a good start."

First of all make sure that the child really wants to play and its not just a case of the parent taking the child to the course so that he/she can get some golfing in. The child must have the desire to play, and look forward to the event.

Try not to over-instruct on the course; leave that to  the professional. Good course etiquette, fundamental rules and speed of play are important aspects to focus on at an early age. Consideration for other people on the course, and correct pace of play allows everyone to enjoy their golf.  

Good behavior is a must. Temper tantrums or sulking should never be tolerated. It is better to remove the child completely from the course and sit down with them at home to explain that that kind of behavior is not acceptable. Make them understand that if this happens in the future they will again be taken home. This might sound harsh, but a sulky child is a pain to play with and a child who enjoys their golf and does not worry about bad shots is a pleasure to be around.

It is important for young golfers to have as much fun as possible. Give them plenty of shots and if they are beginners, don’t make score an issue.  Sometimes pick up the ball and move on to the green and let them putt out to complete the hole. (This will also help speed up play)

If the child is a reasonably accomplished golfer then choose stroke play most of the time.

Occasionally  throw in a few match play rounds, so they get used to competing against an individual as well as the field. The rules are slightly different in stroke play and match play, so make sure the child knows the differences.

Playing golf with your children can be a great source of joy, and I wish you many enjoyable rounds for years to come.